Not many students imagine themselves becoming friends with a foreign exchange student. Senior Meredith Ziegler thought the same thing until
she met Johanna Krick.
“I never really thought I would be friends with a foreign exchange student,” Ziegler said, “But it was something so random that happened and we just clicked.”
Ziegler met Krick, a former German foreign exchange student, last year at Snowcoming. They exchanged phone numbers afterward and began talking every day.
After Krick’s academic experience at SHS, she had to go back to Germany. Ziegler and Krick are now 4380 miles away from each other. The two friends remain close no matter the distance and have even made plans for Ziegler to reunite with Krick in Germany. Despite the time difference, the two still made time for each other by communicating through text messages, phone calls and social media.
“It’s hard, but she is my best friend so I always stay in touch,” Ziegler said.
When Krick had to leave, Ziegler did her best to stay positive. She reminded herself that this wasn’t the last time they’d see each other.
“It was more like good luck instead of goodbye,” Ziegler said, “because it’s not goodbye because we’ll see each other later.”
Similarly, Junior Zamantha Loza has had multiple foreign exchange students whom she’s had to bid farewell.
Loza was friends with Boglárka Hangai from Hungary and Pablo Cremer from Spain her freshman year, then Maria Buján-Puente from Spain her sophomore year. Loza has been able to maintain contact with her friends since they left.
“It may be awkward sometimes but it’s still the same friendship we used to have,” Loza said.
Loza wishes she could hang out with her friends in person again. This makes her struggle a bit with the distance between them. Now that they’ve both grown up, they would have more freedom and opportunities to hang out if they weren’t so far apart.
“I wish I could do more stuff with her (Hangai) now that I’m older,” Loza said.
Loza was closest to Hangai. After she went back to Hungary, the two have been able to maintain contact with each other through Facetime calls and daily texts.
After spending a whole year with these people, Loza finds it weird that they’re not around anymore.
“I just really miss them a lot,” Loza said.
Junior Anna Grehn and her family hosted some foreign exchange students on multiple occasions, most recently Buján-Puente.
Their relationships have been very similar, but not quite the same. The distance can put a huge toll on how much they communicate.
“We’re still as close,” Grehn said, “Everything is just a little more distant.”
Having friends at such a distance has helped Grehn put into perspective what true friendship is. Even while being oceans apart, they’re able to maintain and keep a strong bond.
“Even with a distance, I can tell you, sometimes the friends you have here aren’t as good as the friends you have there,” Grehn said.
Grehn knows that it wasn’t her last time seeing all of her friends and sisters her family hosted.
She’s been planning to visit them in her senior year so she can reconnect with everyone she has become close to.
“We’re gonna do like a whole entire trip through Europe,” Grehn said, “then I’m going to meet up with all my friends.”
Grehn recommends getting to know the foreign exchange students. They’ve become a large part of her life and have allowed her to make connections she didn’t know she could.
“It might be a little lonely when they leave, but I feel like it gives you a good experience,” Grehn said.