Irrational fears plague Cards
October 6, 2016
A rubber balloon, a box of Cheez-Its and a simple bird perched on a wire. They may appear to be totally unrelated objects, but in actuality they are fears shared by some people at SHS.
To put it simply, a fear is something that one is afraid of. Some of the most common fears are spiders, snakes, heights and crowded spaces, according to livescience.com. However, sometimes people have unusual or irrational fears. Just about anything, no matter how silly it seems to be, it could be a fear to someone.
According to guidance counselors Tricia Bender and Erin Shimp, fears come about in ways that can vary from person to person.
“Fears can be manifested by anything,” Bender said. “It can be something you’ve experienced… just the unknown sometimes can manifest into a fear.”
Shimp adds that fears can also be triggered by traumatic events, particularly when one is young. Sometimes, people don’t even have a reason for their fears.
There’s also a difference between a fear and a phobia. While a fear is just something that scares people in general, a phobia can cause panic attacks and similar reactions when dealt with.
“I think you see more physical attributes that can go along with a phobia,” Bender said. “Compared to a fear, where you just don’t like it and you’re gonna stay away from it.”
CHEEZ-ITS
While hanging out at her friend’s house one day, junior Jaela Johnson’s friends decided to play a harmless prank on her. When Johnson reached into the pockets of the jacket she was wearing, she felt one of her biggest fears on her fingertips – Cheez-Its.
“I freaked out and took the jacket off and started crying,” Johnson said.
Johnson has no real reason for her fear of Cheez-Its. She just hasn’t liked them ever since she was a baby. She doesn’t normally cry when in the presence of the snack, but being around them is enough to make her anxious.
Sometimes, if someone gets in her face with Cheez-Its, she can “get physical” by pushing or shoving them, but otherwise, she just tries to keep her distance from them.
“They’re just disgusting, and they stink,” Johnson said. “I try to stay as far away from them as possible.”
Johnson has never tried to get over her fear of Cheez-Its and doesn’t think she ever will. She would get rid all the Cheez-Its in the world if it were her choice, not leaving any for others to enjoy.
“I’d burn up all the Cheez-Its in the entire world so that nobody could have them,” Johnson said.
BALLOONS
Walking into her class one day, English teacher Jessica Walpole caught sight of something that made her blood run cold. In the hands of one of her students was a round, colorful balloon.
“He just kept holding it near his stomach at his desk and I just thought it was going to pop at any moment,” Walpole said. “I felt very nauseous and very sweaty.”
Because of her fear of balloons, also known as globophobia, Walpole tenses and gets nauseous at the mere sight of them.
While she’s a little better around helium balloons, it’s the rubber balloons that really make her tick. In particular, she hates the sound the balloons make when people hold them as well as the possibility that they may pop.
Although Walpole can’t pinpoint the exact reason why she’s terrified of balloons, she believes it may have started in the fourth grade when a balloon popped and it got in her eye. She thinks her fear of clowns may also contribute to her fear of balloons.
Walpole believes she’s getting better being around balloons, saying she let her student keep the balloon he was holding, but in large quantities they still make her uneasy.
“My daughter is about to turn 3,” Walpole said. “I will not allow rubber balloons in my home.”
BIRDS
Sitting on the couch as a child, senior Angie Roy was getting ready to watch a movie with her grandmother. Little did she know that the movie, “The Birds,” would trigger a fear of birds that she still has to this day.
“If there is a bird, I will not go around it,” Roy said. “I will avoid it.”
Roy’s fear of birds, or ornithophobia, is so strong that she won’t even leave her own house if there’s a bird outside. She tends to just avoid them in general. Even when going to the zoo, she doesn’t like to go near the bird exhibits.
“If there’ like a highway underpass and we have to go through it, I’ll roll all the windows up,” Roy said. “Birds just chill under there.”
It’s not as much of a problem if the birds aren’t very close to her, but she says that if someone held a bird in front of her, she would likely scream and run away. Even so, her fear doesn’t affect her to the point where it interferes with her day to day life.
Roy doesn’t think she will get over her fear of birds anytime soon, and hasn’t ever tried to.
“I don’t know how (to get over the fear,)” Roy said. “Just how do you get over a fear?”